How is she feeling about the loss of Coconut? What does she have to say about Banana? They play and have fun but she has to yell at her sometimes. Biggest question: what do I have to do to get her to stop peeing right outside the litter box?!?! P.S. She did good on a short day trip recently. These car rides and adventures are hers to enjoy now! I’m starting with Banana on that soon too.

Connecting with Muffin:

Muffin said Muffin cannot miss Coconut because Coconut spirit is always around. Sometimes Muffin meows to Coconut’s spirit and then to put Banana in Banana’s place. Banana thinks Banana is so wild and in control so Muffin knows that idea out right away. it’s been good getting to play again. Muffin needs to relax and not get overwhelmed when  Muffin and Banana are not being “good little kitties”.  Peeing outside where it’s Muffin’s space. That is why. yes, Muffin will TRY to pee in the smelly litter box. Or not. Muffin is getting out more with mom. Muffin and Mom  having a grand adventure together. Banana is NOT ready to travel yet. TOO WILD. Mom should just enjoy the opportunity to be with Muffin. The world looks better together. Coconut’s spirit comes along often on these adventures too.

It is wonderful to know that Muffin sees Coconut!