Minnie did well after her last session but Mom had gone out of town again so she wanted to strengthen the issue that Mom was NOT going anywhere. As we connected with Minnie she showed Candy how big the fear was to her in “size”. Minnie is only less than 20lbs.
Minnie said Minnie is worried that Mom is going to abandon Minnie and forget Minnie. Underneath all Minnie’s mad is fear of being left, forgotten. Minnie loves Mom and really feels a life line to Mom. Minnie believes there is a soul connection between Mom and Minnie also. With such an attachment Minnie realizes the fear factor creeps in and soon Miss confident Minnie can feel the insecurities taking over all reasonable thoughts. Minnie knows Mom loves and cares about Minnie all the time but FEAR is bigger than Minnie. Minnie showed Candy how big the fear is compared to her.
The previous session showed Minnie’s anger Always beneath anger is fear and we got to the heart of it as Minnie showed Candy how BIG the fear is.
We heard back from Mom she was happy that Minnie is not angry and realizes where the fear came from – when she taken by “big men” who had taken her away.. now she is in her forever home. I hear they are going to have a great weekend together!